Tyler has been somewhat of a permanent fixture in our bed lately. I blame this entirely on my husband. The child refuses to go to bed until everyone is asleep. Jeff likes to stay up late-and by late I mean two and three o’clock in the morning.
If you read the any kind of child’s rearing book-it clearly states bedtime for a three-year old should be around eight p.m. Nope, not for my child, not going to happen. When he does go to sleep it is usually in our bed. In my younger days, I loved sleeping with a toddler by my side. Now that I am six years older and the wiser, not so much! I need my space, I need complete silence (Jeff snores) and I need complete darkness!! No nightlight for me!!
Last night, crawling into bed I explained to the boys that I would be getting up really, really early in the morning to go to work and needed to go to sleep. I was in bed ten minutes, and had just dozed off when I see a little head at the edge of my bed.
“Mommy, I want to sleep in your bed!”
“No.”
“But I DO!”
“No, you need to sleep in your bed! Go to sleep!”
He wanders away……all the way to my husband’s empty side of the bed. I do not roll over, I make no motion to acknowledge him. I hear rustling, I feel covers being pulled-I lay motionless-trying my darndest to not move. He somehow uses the blankets to pull himself onto the bed.
He snuggled in close to me and kisses my ear. I smile, but make no sound. He folds his arm around my neck, I still lay motionless. He kisses my cheek, still grinning I make no move. We lay in silence for a few minutes.
He gives up, crawls out of bed, walks down the hall and crawls into his own bed. At five o’clock in the morning, I find him asleep in his own bed. My big boy made it all night! Tough love but he did it! He stayed in his bed-he will get rewarded tomorrow with lots of hugs, kisses and lovin’!